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La Takrobu Zinna....janganlah mendekati zina..............benda yg boleh elak, baiklah kita elakkan..lebih-lebih lagi yg meragukan...
A friendship wth the opposite sex is not of Islam. It used to be of theJahiliyyah (pre-Islamic era) style of life. A friendship of the two sexes cannever be safe or sex-free. I agree that in some exceptional cases, it could beinnocent. But, a law is usually amended for social regulations. There is no lawto be customized for a certain person or few people.The Qur'an and Sunnah guidance for the sexes dealing with each other has a mainmajor issue for which Islam has set principles and rules to govern. It is thedesire and lust. The Qur'an prohibits anything that motivates one's heart in aseductive way towards the other. The Qur'an tells a woman when she speaks to aman to speak in a way that doesn't show any interest in him lest he should feelseduced to build up an unhealthy relationship. If there is a possibility in anykind of action that it could lead by some percentage into catastrophe, no onewill ever take that risk. I can say what you call friendship could have somepercentage of leading into haram. How would you go to that risk whereas if adoctor says to you an operation of a certain organ could lead you into death?You would say I don't want to risk my life, but I'll take the pain.Islam is not a man's opinion, it is directly laws from God. If you abide by thelaws god lays out via Islam, you certainly will be on the safe side. If you wantto follow reason, reason has a lot of defects and sometimes we cannot draw theline to know who is sane and who is insane. Sometimes you cannot know which iswhich.
Cinta selepas sah bergelar suami isteri lebih indah..